At home at last! - I mean to this site
I was in a while wandering to post my sentiments, emotions, and other updated activities to other site.I'm back!
But first, let me say a BIG BIG THANK YOU to all people who appreciates all my post and even send me messages that my daily dose of post in Facebook inspired them. All the messages and comments that I received is my inspiration to continue in sharing my past & present experiences, my sentiments and emotions in life, my blessings whether its in a form of raindrops or storms, I want to share it you guys not because I am proud on what I had or have but because I want you to let you know how good life is despite of all the imperfections that it brings. THANK YOU SO MUCH!
Not every person you've been with, likes you. Let's admit even the person you've been working for years or decade, meron at meron pa rin na ayaw sa'yo, I mean not the total you..hmmm,maybe some of your attitude or the way you are or even the way you look or dress, jologs ka nga for them. Some people will try to do everything just to please them, just be "in" in the group. Some will change for them in order for them to be accepted - yung trying hard lang naman, yung nagbago ka para hindi sa sarili mo kundi for them, in short "pilit" lang.
There's nothing wrong in "changing" but hopefully you're doing it not for others solely but most especially for yourself. For how many times I encountered and meet people who had a big change or should I say it as improvement in their outside appearance, lifestyles, and even attitude.
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People in the office are talking about the latest fashions, newly opened hotels & restaurants, hi-tech gadgets and of course di ka papahuli so since may credit card naman kaskas dito kaskas doon, pagdating ng pay day nakasibangot kasi halos walang natira sa sinweldo. Well pwede naman kasing hindi makipagsabayan sa kung anong uso, kung anong latest. Hindi ka naman si Tessa Prieto Valdez na kahit nasa bahay ay parang aattend lagi ng party or si Tim Yap na from head to foot ay LV or Gucci.
LIVE ONLY ON WHAT YOU HAVE. If time comes na mejo maluwag na sa budget at kaya mo na then go, hindi masamang makiuso at maging fashionista, what I'm trying to say is live accordingly so in the end hindi ka magsa-suffer.
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Most of your friends are drinking, they love partying and they cannot say that the night is a night until no vodka, whiskey or whatever alcohol drinks on the table - and you na walang kaalam-alam sa mga inuming alak, I mean hindi ka naman umiinom talaga pero hindi naman pwede na sa bawat labas ng barkada is water or juice na lang ang oorderin mo,kakahiya naman kalalaking tao mo pa naman. So ang ending hatid sa bahay talaga, kasi di ka na makalakad pauwi ng flat mo sa isa o dalawang can of beer pa lang. Sino ba kasing maysabi sa'yo na uminom ka. NEVER EVER COMPROMISE. Whatever your reasons why you're not into vices - drinking, smoking, gambling, etc. you don't need to twist it just for them. You cannot reason out na pinipilit ka nila kasi kung ayaw mo talaga walang pilitan na mangyayari. Stand on what you believe in. Hindi maiiwasan na magkaroon ng mga party and gatherings and most people who are with you are drinking liquor, pero you have a choice naman lagi - if sa palagay you can't refuse na mapainom ka then don't go marami pa namang gatherings na darating.
Scene 3
"Maganda ka" yan ang sabi ng Nanay pero iba ang nakikita mo sa salamin kapag humaharap ka - hindi ka kasi kasingganda ni Celine or kasing sexy ni Margaux, teleserye queen fanatic ka kasi kaya ang dami mong insecurities. Gusto mo ng long black hair na parang katulad ng model ng Pantene or Creamsilk, gusto mo ng matangos na ilong, mapula and pouted lips na gaya ng kay Anne Curtis, makinis na kutis katulad ng kay Kris, at kung ano-ano pa..kaya ang kinalabasan ng mukha at kaatawan mo gawang Vicky Belo. Ang mata naka-contact lense kahit walang grado, ang ngipin ok naman pero dahil uso ang brace sige nagpalagay ka din, gusto ng red lips nagpatatoo lips e di nga pouted lips na, pati ang eyebrow walang hirap ng pagaayos sa morning kasi tattoo na rin....ikaw na ikaw na ikaw na ang maraming pera at walang paglagyan. Enhancing your beauty is different from surgery. YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL ON WHO YOU ARE NOT ON WHAT YOU BECOME. I'm not saying na masamang magpaganda but self "beauty" improvement can be done without undergoing to beauty surgery. You are fearfully and wonderfully created by God kaya kung ano ka maganda ka talaga.
Self improvement starts with the attitude then it comes out. To have a good relationship to others, you must have a good relation with yourself first. To know and to love others, you must know and love yourself first.
God loves us in a very special and personal way!
Say these repeatedly to yourself and implant to your heart: I'm beautiful because I am fearfully and wonderfully made by the Lord. The Lord is my Creator and He created me like Him
Being yourself all times is the best asset you can have to be totally beautiful
